Saturday, March 10, 2012

Calgon Take Me Away

Some days I feel so overwhelmed with just the basics... Dishes, laundry, meal times. Today was a one step forward two steps back kind of day. The kind of day when you realize the only thing you have eaten all day was a cup of coffee and some Gerber Puffs your baby stuck in your mouth.

The kind of day when you start to cry... and it is ok to cry... Real Mom's cry.

The only way to survive a day like today is to give in... Give in to the mess and chaos. Turn the radio up really loud and dance with your kids. Be silly and spontaneous... and when they finally go down for a nap, eat some chocolate and veg out on Pinterest.

and it is ok to give up on things like that... Real Mom's give up because they are just in-perfect people... and people get tired too.

Today's lost battle of laundry, dishes, and sticky faces is just one small battle in the war of Motherhood. Time to pull the flanks in... re-group... call in reinforcements... and try again in the Morning.

and that is ok too... Real Mom's need help sometimes... we are only human.

Funny thing... at the end of the day, on days like today, are the days that I feel the most complete. I lay in bed and cry a little... loving the crazy of the day... loving my children even more.

and that is ok too.... I am a just a Mom... and remember, Real Mom's cry too!

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Off to Neverland!



Daniel and I got to live out a dream of ours this month... we took our children to Disneyland! We thought that maybe it would be something that we would get to enjoy later on in life... when our lives seemed more settled. After getting our tax refund we were looking into taking a weekend vacation... just the two of us... but Disney was a nagging option that kept trying to make its way to the front of my thoughts. So I looked into it... and got hooked! We HAD to do Disney! Even if Ana won't remember the trip... even if Eli is a little too young to fully enjoy it... Daniel and I will ALWAYS remember how excited he was!


Oh boy, Elijah was excited too! This kid has so much energy and enthusiasm! It was so much fun! Seeing his face when he got to meet "yee haw cowboy" (Woody) and "Uzz" (Buzz Lightyear)... I cried! Hearing him exclaim excitement after each ride, made my heart burst with joy. I have always loved Disneyland... but experiencing it with my kids is a new kind of fun!
Daniel had never been either! He tried to play it off like Disneyland was no big deal... but I kept catching these glimpses of awe and wonder. He totally enjoyed himself!
Being the frugal couponing gal I am, I looked into discount hotels and tickets... of course. We decided to buy our tickets and hotel package with Costco. We used my Moms membership to get the package deal. We stayed in the Disneyland Hotel... something I had always wanted to do! I am not sure we would stay there again. It was expensive... really expensive. It is a nice hotel, but really you are only paying for easy accesses into the park with the Monorail. The decor in the hotel was Disney themed, and that was fun... but there was make up stains in the bathroom from some girls cover-up exploding, the tub had a broken drain so we had to shower the kids instead of bathing them, the window was covered in hand prints... and other little things like that. I am not saying we had a terrible experience... I am just saying we probably wouldn't spend the money on staying there again. It did have perks... and was really really really REALLY cool though.

The coolest feature of staying the Disneyland hotel (other then the easy access into the park) was the Nanny. The hotel has a list of Nanny agencies that are available to come to your room and watch your children. I have never had to pay for a sitter before, so this was new to me... but the price was really decent! I charged more for babysitting when I was in high school. I asked a bazillion questions and did my research of course so I was totally at ease with the little old lady who came to watch my babies. SO... Daniel and I got to spend a few hours in Disneyland ALONE! Oh boy! It was really fun! We ran to all the "big kid" rides and literally walked right on... it was a blast! We walked through New Orleans Square hand in hand... got a Mint Julep and just enjoyed being together in the happiest place on Earth! Funny thing... Disneyland is really romantic!

Anamarie spent most of her Disneyland experience asleep in her sling. When carrying a really cute baby in a sling in Disneyland, you get LOTS of attention... and it is nearly impossible to hurry and get anywhere, people stop you to "gush" at your baby. She was getting over a really nasty flu bug (we all were really). She liked seeing all the people when she was awake, and enjoyed the rides (she really was able to go on MOST of the rides!)... she didn't really like the characters though. The only one she was interested in was Belle. We had TWO sets premium dinner tickets... we went to Goofys Kitchen AND Ariels Grotto. While at Ariels Grotto we got to meet many of the Princesses. Ana wasn't interested in any of them... then she met Belle! She cooed and smiled! She tried to slobber kiss Belles face and watched her the entire meal! It was so sweet! I am happy to know that Ana's favorite Princess is Belle... fun!


Our trip was a total success! Eli keeps asking "Disneyland tomorrow in the morning Mom?"... he wants to go back! I keep telling him "someday"... I hope that someday isn't too far away!


Monday, January 2, 2012

Whipple Family 2011 in Review


-Whipple Family 2011 in Review-


In January we said “see you later” to Uncle Dave.


We were surprised, in February, to learn that baby bean was in fact a Girl, and we named her Anamarie May Whipple.


March was quiet dull. I kept myself busy with learning to coupon… playing with Elijah and helping my sister plan her wedding.

April was more exciting! We started to look for a home to move in to. I had a very pregnant birthday AND Easter.

May was filled with so much baby thoughts. A lovely shower… setting up a nursery in our new home. Daniel started working at the Walmart Distribution Center in Red Bluff! Working half the hours for double the pay. Daniels Mom, Sister and Nieces came and visited for a week. Elijah got to meet and play with his cousins and Auntie for the first time! It was awesome! That last week of May I tried so desperately to induce labor… it didn’t work.

My beautiful baby girl… my daughter… was born June 9th! I can tell you that I can’t help but cry still when I think about how happy I am because of that pink squishy girl. June was the highlight of my year.


July is the month my baby sister became a Mrs. Her Wedding was quite the event! I have never been to a more fun wedding! Elijah was the ring bearer, but he did not take his responsibilities seriously… tisk tisk! I also got to spend some time with two very special friends and their daughters in July! I am ecstatic that we each have a girl… ah! Anamarie went on her first family vacation during the month of July also. We drove up to the coast as a family… I still can’t believe I took my newborn camping. It was an experience… July also welcomed another baby Colbert into the world! Elijah has yet another girl cousin in his life…


August was spent creating family memories… it was slower and we just enjoyed being a family of four. Toward the end of the month we drove over to visit Daniels family on the coast. His sister and brother were helping his parents move. Ana got to meet them for the first time. My sister moved to Georgia, because that is where her husband is stationed… obviously she would want to live with him.

My baby boy turned three years old in September. He is such a little ham… and I could not love him any more! He had a very “yee-haw” cowboy party… he sure did enjoy himself! We got Eli a bicycle for his birthday… he thinks he is the coolest kid on the block now!

In October Eli got to start school. He finished with speech therapy and I was advised, that because of his delay, he would benefit from a structured learning environment for a few hours each day. During that time he meets with a special speech therapist. It has only been a few months and everyone in Eli’s life has noticed an improvement in his speech. He is a different kid! So much happier! He sure does love going to school too! He has fun with his friends! Both Eli and Ana went Trick-or-Treating this Haloween. Eli dressed as a pirate, Ana dressed as a panda bear. Eli had a BLAST!



November came and left in a whirlwind! I had no time to blog… Daniels parents visited shortly. It is so nice that the kids get to see them often! I love it and they love seeing their Nana and Papa! Thanksgiving was fun as always. Ana and I braved Black Friday at Walmart.
My babies first Christmas seemed so far away last year at this time. I remember holding my belly a year ago today and thinking about him… or her… Christmas pictures, decorating the tree, making cookies, snuggling on the couch with my sweet baby love. December 2011 finally arrived and Ana’s first Christmas was everything I dreamed it would be. I wrapped all of her dolls and Barbie’s in pink Christmas paper, and she had a blast tearing them open just to eat the paper. Elijah enjoyed Christmas so much this year… he was finally able to understand the concept… and it was just so magical!
Daniel celebrated his 27 birthday this December and his AWESOME wife gave him two tickets to see the 49er’s vs. Rams game. It was his first professional football game. He took his buddy and they drove down to San Fran for the day. I think that I got the better deal. I got to see his face when I gave him the tickets… he just got to watch some boring game.

2011 was EPIC



Monday, November 14, 2011

My Coupon'ing Evolved


I had posted several months ago about "How I Coupon"... reading that post... now... I realize how much more money I was spending then compared to now.

NOW

-I do not pay more than 25¢ for toothpaste or a toothbrush... usually only paying tax for either. I only buy Crest, Colgate or Oral-B.

-I do not pay more than 20¢ for a roll of toliet Paper... usually Cottonelle

-I do not pay more than $1.00 for mine (Herbal Essence) or Daniels (Head and Shoulders) or Elijah's (Suave 3-in-1) or Ana's (Johnson's Baby Head to Toe) shampoo.

-I do not pay more than 9¢ for a diaper... and I have only been buying Pampers or Huggies. Sometimes I buy the store brand... like when I bought a Jumbo Pack of CVS diapers for $1.25... GOOD DEAL!

-I do not pay more than 75¢ for Daniels Degree deodorant

-I do not pay anything for Daniels razors... he has a few years worth of Schick, Gillette and a few store brand name razors and cartridges.

It has been an interesting process moving our family to a "coupon lifestyle"... one week we seriously only ate sandwiches, soup and frozen fish poppers.

Now though, with a stock pile, I feel more relaxed... not like I am chasing down every deal... not HAVING to clip coupons Sunday morning to get the sales that started that day.

It takes discipline... you just have to make the time. Which is becoming harder and harder to do as Ana becomes more mobile! I heard someone say once (in regards to people saying they don't have time to coupon) "you just have never been broke enough"... It really made me realize that instead of complaining and being bummed out about too many bills at the end of the money, I could do something about it.

I spend anywhere from 3-15 hours a week reading blogs, Facebook posts and visiting coupon friendly websites. I feel like it is my way for contributing financially.

It also is important to be organized. I use a zip-up binder... the kind that I used to get made fun of for using in school. In that binder are probably 200 clear plastic baseball card holders. Each clear sheet has 9-12 pockets... that is where I put my clipped coupons! (see above picture)

One of the key elements to successfully coupon'ing was to stop being picky. Drop the favorite name brands and just go with what we can get for free. I stopped buying the $9 lotion and expensive make-up. We do have some things we are snobby about... sure... Daniel refuses to use anything other than Head and Shoulders... and I won't use anything other than Herbal Essence. With the use of coupons... we can be snobby about that!

I wish I would have couponed years ago... especially right after Daniel got laid-off when Eli was a newborn. I remember looking for change under couch cushions and the floor of my car so I could buy the cheap 77¢ White Rain shampoo... not finding much change and just having to use bar soap as shampoo.

It really is VERY EASY to coupon. You don't have to be a die-hard EXTREME couponer... saving any amount of money is GOOD... good for you... money you can use to pay a bill, buy a cute pair of shoes, or money to use for a vacation.

-Get 1 or more Sunday papers. You can also ask friends, neighbors or family to save their inserts for you. I have my Parents and my Poppie save the inserts for me. If the coupons are especially good I will venture out and asked around the neighborhood if I can have their inserts... Ok I usually just check the recycle bins the night before trash day... it is a dirty job and you will not believe the amount of people who toss their cigarettes in the recycle bin! I print over half of my coupons! I don't use coupons.com... I use the Swagbucks coupon databank (visit my Swagbucks info Blog here ... it is powered by coupons.com BUT for every coupon I use I earn 10 Swagbucks! After using 45 coupons I have enough points for a $5 Amazon.com gift card! I have used Swagbucks for about a year now... earning over $300 in Amazon.com gift cards. NO JOKE! I only earn Swagbucks from the coupons I use and from doing online searches (instead of Google, I use their search engine (which is powered by Google... so it’s all the same)

-Organize your coupons. Whatever way is easiest for you! Some people carry around a white envelope with a few coupons. Some people just put a few coupons in their wallet. I started out with just putting coupons in my wallet. But then I would forget to use them... then I started putting them in a small accordion folder. It fit in my purse... but I quickly found that it was hard to find coupons spur-of-the-moment like while in the store. Some people get the coupon inserts, but do not clip them. They just keep them whole and check what sales are going on... then clip them according to what they need. I like to have my coupons with me when I go out... that way if I find clearance items I can see if I have coupons for them.

-I religiously check my Facebook for posts from fellow coupon'ing sites. I also visit www.afullcup.com several times a day.

https://www.facebook.com/thecouponista

https://www.facebook.com/MommysMoneySavingObsession

https://www.facebook.com/iheartthemart# *favorite!

https://www.facebook.com/MyLittercom *favorite!

https://www.facebook.com/NorCalCouponGal

Before I had posted that my favorite store is Target... I have sense changed my mind. I do most my shopping at Walmart, Walgreens and CVS. I haven't been to Winco in months! I do still visit Target... and I use coupons there of course! You can read all about shopping at Target in my other "How to Coupon" blog.

Walmart

Walmart is AMAZING! I love how they will Ad Match ANYTHING! Every Wednsday I open up a Word document and at the top I type WALMART MATCH UPS (then the date). I then open my Swagbucks browser and type in Safeway (sometimes earning Swagbucks!)... click on the Safeway site... click on their sales ad and get to work. When I find a good deal I type the item name and the price Safeway has it priced at, then what coupon I have for it.

I do the same for Raleys and Food Maxx... our local Food Maxx doesn't put out an ad weekly so I use Krogers ad (Food Maxx is Kroger... like how Safeway is Vons/Randalls/Tom Thumb). I also price match CVS, Walgreens, SavMore, Big Lots and Rite Aide. You can price match ANY store that is a competitor to Walmart. I am going to be price matching Best Buy and JcPenny's on Black Friday!

Along with price matching ads, I use coupons on the items price matched. Many times making the item FREE or pretty darn close to free. Walmart allows overages... meaning if I have a coupon that exceeds the amount of the item I am purchasing, Walmart will take the excess amount and apply it to my order. I also use my Associate discount card... taking 10% off most the items I purchase... I am a cool kid like that.

It is VERY time consuming... and I will spend over half an hour at the register sometimes. Especially if the cashier clerk is new or doesn't know how to price match.

There have been many times when the clerk tells me that Walmart doesn't price match (despite the ads on tv, radio, online and the MANY signs in the store saying they do). I have also been told that I can not use coupons with price matching. For those occasions I pull out my copy of Walmarts coupon policy and show them. They will call over their CSM, who will (should) tell them follow the corporate coupon policy. I have been called a liar and thief at Walmart a few times by cashiers. To coupon you have to grow a thick skin... and it never pays to get mad. No item or sale is worth it.

Walgreens

I LOVE WALGREENS! It is one of my favorite places to shop with coupons. It can be a little intimidating at first, with their Register Reward system and all... but it is really quite simple. A Register Reward (RR) is a coupon that prints out from the Catalina machine at the time of purchase for a specified item. When looking at the Walgreens ad I focus on purchasing items that offer the RR. Once I get a RR, I use that RR to purchase other items that offer RR. It is called "Rolling RR".

The tricky thing with RR is that if you use a RR from a product to purchase another of the same product, you WILL NOT get another RR.

Example: Purchase one Dove/Degree deoderant for $2.99 get $2.00 RR.

I pay $2.99 for the deoderant, get the $2RR at the end of the transaction.

On the RR I will see "Thank you for your purchase Dove/Degree", the amount for the RR and an expiration date (which is always 2 weeks exactly). So if I use that RR on another Dove/Degree item, I will not get another RR.

HOWEVER... I can use a RR from a different transaction.

Example: Purcahse one Dove/Degree deoderant for $2.99 get $2.00 RR.

I use a $1 off Dove deodorant coupon AND a $2 RR from a previous purchase (Say Blistex).

SO I am using 2 paper items (a coupon and a RR), but only purchasing 1 item... I call it having more paper then items... I need to find a "filler" item. A filler can be ANYTHING... a soda, a piece of candy, a pair of socks, pictures from the photo lab, a newspaper, a 10 cent pencil, a gift card... ANYTHING! So just remember make sure you don't have more coupons/ RR then items to purchase.

So my transactions would look like this:

Purcahse one Dove/Degree deoderant for $2.99

Purcahse one filler item

Use $1 off Dove

Use $2 RR from previous Blistex purchase

Pay tax and filler item amount

get $2.00 RR

When shopping at Walgreens I almost always check out at the Beauty counter... sometimes the photo counter... that way I don't hold the line up in the front. I always type out my transaction so I stay focused. I need to focus especially if I have Eli with me. Every Sunday the same girl is working the Beauty Counter... she knows my system and I will bring like a $10bill with me and just keep it, some change, my coupons I am using, and my previous RR on the counter... so when I have to chase Eli down she just keeps the transactions going without me... taking change from the counter to complete the transactions... it is kind of hilarious!

CVS

I wish I wish I wish I would have started couponing at CVS sooner! I didn't for a LONG time... until I got a free body wash coupon from them... That same week I got a $4 of $20 purchase, a free CVS band-aide coupon and a free Hershey Candy Bar coupon and a $3 off any diaper purchase... I took those coupons and my coupon for $10 off $15 pampers purchase and bought an 82 pack of Pampers, a full size body wash, a box of CVS brand band-aides and a candy bar for $1.12! And because I bought the box of diapers I got $4 Extra Care Bucks (In store credit)... Thus beginning my love affair with CVS!

The first thing you need to do to coupon at CVS is to sign up for their loyalty card program "Extra Care Card". It gives you access to their store ad prices and things called "extra care bucks" or "ECB"s for short. You can sign up online or in the store.

SECOND... sign up for their Beauty Care program. It links up to your Extra Care Card, but keeps your beauty care purchases totaled separately. For every $50 you spend on beauty purchases you get $5 ECB (that you can use on anything... not just beauty purchases)

Every time you walk into a CVS you need to visit the coupon kiosk, also referred to as the "Magic Coupon Machine". The kiosk is usually close to the front of the store... and close to the Pharmacy counter. Every time I shop at CVS, the first thing I do is scan my card at the kiosk. It will print out store coupons and coupons that say a % off your total, or $ off a $$ purchase. These kiosk coupons CAN be staked with manufactures coupons. You can find the % off and $ off $$ purchase online at cvs.com too. You will have to log in to access them... I find it easier to keep track of them that way, so I can plan my weekly trips and what-not.

Like Walgreen's, CVS's weekly deals give a in store credit (ECB) with certain items purchased. You can use these to purchase ANYTHING in the store (minus the normal no-no's, lotto tix, liquor, cigarettes ... you get the picture). To maximize savings and reduce total out-of-pocket expense, I like to roll the ECB into other items that also give out ECB.

UNLIKE Walgreen's, CVS lets you use your ECB to purcahce same deal items... so for the Example: Purchase one Dove/Degree deoderant for $2.99 get $2.00 ECB... I can do that transaction over and over again using the ECB just earned.

HOWEVER... UNLIKE Walgreen's, CVS puts a limit on the amount of times you can do the transaction to earn the ECB. You will find the limit under the ad price. It is usually "limit 1".

My favorite thing about CVS is that UNLIKE Walgreen's I don't have to have to watch my item to coupon ratio. I can pay for my total transaction using coupons and ECB.

Also, with CVS, you earn 2% back... so at the end of the season, you earn 2% of what you spent (after coupons) back. It prints into an ECB that you can use in store.


That is all I think... I know that it can seem really daunting at first, but it is so worth your time! It took me awhile to get the hang of it. Not every transaction works the way you plan either. Sometimes I walk out of the store and look at my receipt and do a facepalm... "ugh... that was stupid"... And sometimes you just HAVE to buy something that isn't cheap and that you DON'T have a coupon for... like a 12 pack of Dr. Pepper 10 for $6!!!

Thursday, November 10, 2011

A Pink Christmas

Before Motherhood I had day dreamed about what it would be like to share Christmas with my children. Curious if it would be the same feeling I had when I was a child... curious if that wonder and excitement would return.

Then I had Elijah... and Christmas was a new sort of exciting. Taking part in traditions Daniel and I grew up with... and sharing with each other in this new tradition of having a family.

Being a parent during Christmas is... magical!

There is nothing you love more in the world than you children... and to see them so enchanted... it is a whole new kind of fun!

Then I had Anamarie... and the Christmas season is once again approaching. My Mother and I went to JC Penny's and picked out Ana's Christmas dress... talking about matching red shoes and a big red hair bow. Finding matching Christmas pajamas for both Eli and Ana. Then walking the toy isles... thinking about buying my baby girl dolls and Barbies... but realizing she is not even six months old.

Then, while in Walgreens, getting the weeks coupon deals... I picked up some wrapping paper. I found some cute snowman paper for all of Eli's gifts... then I picked up some pink snowflake paper for Ana. I looked at the pink wrapping paper... holding it for a long moment... I cried.

I have a daughter. A daughter to buy fluffy dresses for. A daughter that needs matching shoes and bows... ... and pink wrapping paper to keep secret the dollies and Barbies Santa is going to bring her.

Last year at this time I held my growing belly... putting every ounce of faith into God... hearing Him tell me that everything is GOOD... and now... I am buying pink wrapping paper.

"God's voice thunders in marvelous ways; he does great things beyond our understanding." Job 37:5